How to become an Alpha male

The dictionary definition says:

Alpha male (noun): The dominant member in a group of men. Holds strong influence over group activities. Has priority pick when it comes to sex with women.

But, what does that mean?

To help you understand more about what an alpha male is, I'm going to expand on that definition with some real-life examples.


Alpha males convey good status

When a guy walks into a room of people, he will either:

1. Assume lower status and look around for a leader to follow or get approval from.
2. Assume that he is the leader (or at least one of the leaders) and simply expect others to follow.

Typically, alpha males are like the second type of guy.

Which are you more like at the moment?

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Alpha males are usually confident enough to be cocky & funny

A lot of guys are afraid of saying and doing the things that they would really like to.

This especially applies in social situations, where guys will often use 'safe' humor and behavior to stay 'under the radar' and not be noticed by people.

Being cocky & funny is a typical alpha male quality that - if done correctly - will make women extremely attracted to you, and guys look up and respect you more.

I've written up some free tips on cocky & funny here.


Alpha males are confident

Alpha males are usually very confident guys.

How about you?

• How confident are you around women?
• How confident are you around other guys?
• Do you feel confident in specific areas of your life?
• Do you feel that your lack of confidence in some areas, is holding you back from being the alpha male that you know you could be?

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Alpha males have more masculine qualities

Much of being an alpha male is judged by the masculinty of your behavior, actions, body language and how you live your life.


The following is an example of being an alpha male by taking the lead in a social situation.

Imagine that you’re at a bar with women/friends and it feels like time to change venues.

You can say something like:

“Okay, let’s finish our drinks and go somewhere else. You guys want to go to xyz bar?”

Whereas, a guy who isn't an alpha male will lean more towards a question or statement that suggest someone else takes the lead. For example:

"I'm bored, how about you?" and then he'll hope someone else will take the lead and suggest the next action.

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